So...

When I start to tell a story I normally start it with “So…” And I wasn’t aware of it until I did an internship in New York. When my manager would have to call a client from Missouri for a meeting he would get himself all set up with plenty to do during the meeting. He said we tend to talk slow and drag out words and start everything thing with ‘”So…’”. So I became aware of this habit so thought why not embrace it. Each of my blogs are like a story I would tell a friend so I would only seemed fitting I started it with “So…”.
Okay SO here goes…
My name is Jessica and I’m a fat girl. This blog will be about my struggle with my inner fat girl as I try to be a fit girl. I have struggled with my weight for a few years and this blog is a glimpse into my daily battles with myself, fitness, and food.
Bear with me through this process, as I will have slip ups and typos but I never claimed to be a fitness professional or a writer.

Monday, June 10, 2013

So... Disastrous Zip Codes


I have watched every Sex and The City episode… a few times…I know sad.  One episode Miranda goes to Weight Watchers and they talk about the Weight Watchers meeting right next to a Krispy Kreme. Well I have that beat. Not only do I pass a Lamar’s donuts, I pass tons of other places with deliciously evil food on the way to and home from my workout. I googled the zip code of the gym with the key word food. I knew there was tons of places to eat by my gym but I had no idea how many. 73! Yes 73! Buffets, fast food, restaurants…   Are you serious!? How does one town need so many food places! You could eat out at a different restaurant every day for two and a half months. On the way to work on the way home from work on my way to my workout and home from my workout I am bombarded with temptation. Hmm… That makes me wonder how many are by my work. OMG 62. I knew we had a lot of options to eat lunch but my god! That is 135. 135 places that could potentially be more appealing than my Tupperware meals.  I guess I better step my Tupperware meals up to compete with all this temptation.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

So not fair!


I work in an office building that is above an open air shopping district, so being officially summer break there are many teens and college students walking around shopping. Yesterday I saw one guy walking with his girlfriend. He had cut off sleeves and walked as if he thought he was a body builder. But when I looked his arms were big, but no muscle definition. I’m not going to say he had fat arms but I am also not going to say they were anywhere close to muscular.  Only moments later I saw a group of three guys. Another cut off sleeve guy thinking he was all bad. But again no real muscles. Yes sirs your arms are not scrawny but no you are not showing off muscle. I have girls in my bootcamp with more muscular definition than you. Made me think how with size guys are viewed as muscular even if they aren’t. Um that doesn’t apply for girls. If I were to wear shorts people would think ah her thighs are big meaning muscular. Not they would say her thighs are big and she shouldn’t be wearing those shorts. Girls who have big arms who wear sleeveless are not viewed positively. But guys cut off their sleeves and celebrate their big arms. Today I actually wore short sleeves to work. A big step for me. Yes I am very self-conscious of my arms and normally wear sweaters over anything with short sleeves or sleeveless to cover my arms. Not fair boys not fair.
Here guys the video below will help you cut your sleeves off.

Another thing not fair. I have been busting my butt working out at fit by burn four times a week, counting calories, eating more often, drinking tons of water and gave up soda and I haven’t lost weight. My fiancĂ© on the other hand hasn’t started working out(yet*, still drinks 42 oz of soda a day, but eats a healthier dinner with me, has lost 19 lbs. Are you serious!!! Again I cry not fair, not fair!

*yet because of some reasons out of his control. He is hoping to start next week.
 

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

So.. My red solo cup is a little different these days.


My red solo cup would likely be filled with frozen margaritas from my cordless Margaritaville Margarita machine. Sometimes filled with beer, playing flip cup or beer pong. Now my red solo cup has my protein shake in the morning. I found if I took my protein shake to work in my shaker bottle I wouldn’t go to the other side of the building to wash the bottle until the afternoon. I would forget it in the car. Or I would get busy at work and forget to drink my shake and by the time I remembered it would be gross. Now I put my shake in a red solo cup and drink it on the way to work. My goal is to be done by the time I get to work. Then I can start drinking water right away at work. So far it has worked! Too bad my old solo up concoctions use to way more interesting. Cheers biotches!
 
 

So Sorry


Sorry I haven’t posted for awhile. But my absence should tell you my part time job is going well. By part time job I mean working out and food prep. I have 6 workouts a week. And am trying to eat every 3 hours. Sounds easy right…  not so much.  Tonight it is 9:20 and I just got done working out and fixing dinner and cleaning up. I still need to shower and get to bed early (hopefully before 11 but doesn’t happen often) to wake up at 4:40am to go to my workout. Sundays have become food shopping and food prepping. Food prep Sundays have helped some of the time in the morning so I can just grab all my Tupperware containers for the day out of the fridge to bring them to work. Oh and I try to get some wedding planning and house work in here and there.

 

There have been set back like getting to work and there being no room in the fridge. Yes this is my fridge at work that I have to try and fit all my Tupperware in.
 

It hasn’t always been easy. Like getting out of bed in the morning brushing teeth putting hair up and getting back in bed to then get back up and change clothes to then get back in bed and then ugh finally rush to bootcamp to only wish I hadn’t because Mindy kicked my butt.
 

But I have had a few wins! Like going to the Royals game and not drinking those amazing blue frozen margaritas. Not drinking at all. Go me!
 
 
 

Thursday, May 23, 2013

So… Yoga pants


So… Yoga pants have another purpose than going on an errand to target or CVS?

 
Last night after my workout I had a few errands and just went right after my workout. I encountered other girls in yoga pants who had full on makeup, nails, earrings, and hair. 
Hmmm I might have been one of these girls who on the weekend would go to Bed Bath and Beyond…  and Beyond in yoga pants. "Well, um, actually a pretty nice little Saturday, we're going to go to Home Depot. Yeah, buy some wallpaper, maybe get some flooring, stuff like that. Maybe Bed, Bath, & Beyond, I don't know, I don't know if we'll have enough time." Old School

But now I actually wear them to workout. Not exactly yoga… although after our boot camp and daily burn we do some yoga moves before stretching, but nothing too crazy.
Was I jealous of these girls that looked like they stepped out of a Victoria secret catalog instead of a gym? Ummm…. YEA! When the thought came to mind... “Are those your workout earrings” I knew I was being a hater. Made me think of how the first time I went hunting with Greg and his friend. When I got in the truck I had full on hair, makeup, and earrings. And his friend instantly asked “are those your hunting earrings”. LOL I was all about my tan, nails, jewelry, and outfit at the time in my life. I think I am jealous of the fact they have the time and money to do those things. Working out 5-8 times a week like I am suppose to and re-teaching myself what food is, is like a second job for me right now. By the time I get off work and change clothes and work out and get home and eat it is almost time to start thinking of going to bed so I can get up at 4:30am to work out in the morning. It will all be worth it!! It will. I am proud of myself that since April 15th I have at least worked out 4 times a week! The nails and such are just not as big of a priority anymore. Health over looks. Plus the cost of grocery shopping and fitness classes I had to give up expenses like getting my nails done. So am I jealous of how she looks yes. But I need to do these things so I can look close to as good as she does in yoga pants.  Because right know when I wear them I feel like I need to be in a people of Wal-Mart instead of a Victoria Secret ad.









Monday, May 20, 2013

So... Let's Do This... Now that I have had my last suppers


Let’s get serious.
This weekend I had my last super(s). Saturday Greg and I went to On The Boarder and I had tacos, chips, salsa, cheese dip, and a Margarita. My favorites!!! I love chips and salsa. Greg thinks I sweat salsa. When I go to Margairta's the waiters bring me my own salsa. They sometime joke about bringing the chip basket full of salsa and a straw. Okay people I get it, you are aware of my favorite food.
Sunday we went to Olive Garden and had pasta, salad and bread sticks. I could eat Mexican or Italian for every meal, everyday and not get sick of it! I love pasta. So this also had to be a last supper.

After indulging in my obsessions, Sunday night I prepped  food for this week. I have seen a few facebook friends post pictures of their fridges or counters with their Tupperware with the upcoming week’s food.  Granted these people are into fitness competitions I figured if wouldn’t hurt for me to try. Even though I am not prepping for a fitness competition I am battling myself. I baked chicken, cleaned and tore up spinach, cut strawberries, and pineapple and separated them all into Tupperware portions. Confession I didn’t cut the pineapple by hand. The future in-law's got me a pineapple slicer. It is awesome!!


Saturday we spent a lot of time shopping getting soy milk for protein shakes, spinach for salads, pineapple, zucchini, squash, tomatoes, corn, strawberries, mushrooms, apples, chicken, steak, pork. Basically just shopping the outsides of the grocery store.

My struggle right now is getting brave and trying other green veggies. I look at my fridge and feel guilty for the starchy veggies and sugary fruits.
The closest to green veggies I have eaten is lettuce and cucumbers.
My meals growing up, like most Midwesterns , was meat and potatoes with pizza and pasta nights. There are many veggies I never tried. If my dad didn’t like it, I didn’t like it. His ideas of veggies are corn or peas. So here I am at age 28 wrinkling my nose at the thought of a green veggie. I need to get serious and get over it and learn to like them. So I will likely be sitting at my kitchen table struggling to get the green veggies down since we do not have a dog for me to feed the veggies off my plate too.
I now use baby spinach instead of iceberg lettuce in my salads.
I have tried celery but it is a no go! GROSS. My coworker saw me try it and my facial expression. She asked, “What do you think it tastes like?” I said it tastes spicy! She about fell down laughing.” Spciy?” She asked.  I said, “ ya! Spicy!!” She thinks I am crazy. I gave her my celery. So I goggled what does celery taste like. “Celery, like some forms of lettuce, has a mild acid content that gives a tart, tangy, flavor. It is sharper than a sweet pepper.”

So, in addition to prepping for the week and trying new veggies, I am going to try to eat though out the day. Try for every two hours. And to flip my food schedule upside down. I use to hardly eat anything throughout the day and then have a huge carb loaded dinner. Now I need to eat more throughout the day and limit carbs if not eliminate them after 3:00pm. This will be a HUGE challenge since it is pretty much the opposite of what I currently do.

If you have any green veggies you think I should try please let me know!

Thanks ya’ll!