I work in an office building that is above an open air
shopping district, so being officially summer break there are many teens and
college students walking around shopping. Yesterday I saw one guy walking with
his girlfriend. He had cut off sleeves and walked as if he thought he was a body
builder. But when I looked his arms were big, but no muscle definition. I’m not
going to say he had fat arms but I am also not going to say they were anywhere
close to muscular. Only moments later I
saw a group of three guys. Another cut off sleeve guy thinking he was all bad. But
again no real muscles. Yes sirs your arms are not scrawny but no you are not showing
off muscle. I have girls in my bootcamp with more muscular definition than you.
Made me think how with size guys are viewed as muscular even if they aren’t. Um
that doesn’t apply for girls. If I were to wear shorts people would think ah
her thighs are big meaning muscular. Not they would say her thighs are big and
she shouldn’t be wearing those shorts. Girls who have big arms who wear sleeveless
are not viewed positively. But guys cut off their sleeves and celebrate their
big arms. Today I actually wore short sleeves to work. A big step for me. Yes I
am very self-conscious of my arms and normally wear sweaters over anything with
short sleeves or sleeveless to cover my arms. Not fair boys not fair.
Here guys the video below will help you cut your sleeves off. Another thing not fair. I have been busting my butt working out at fit by burn four times a week, counting calories, eating more often, drinking tons of water and gave up soda and I haven’t lost weight. My fiancé on the other hand hasn’t started working out(yet*, still drinks 42 oz of soda a day, but eats a healthier dinner with me, has lost 19 lbs. Are you serious!!! Again I cry not fair, not fair!
*yet because of some reasons out of his control. He is hoping to start next week.
